When is it ok to lie?
Tuesday, April 28th, 2009I was asked recently if I’m ALWAYS honest. As a general rule, I’d have to say “yes but….” and the “but” is there because I will admit that sometimes I will tell a little white lie if it prevents someone’s feelings from being needlessly hurt. For example, if a co-worker recently got a hair cut and they ask me if I like it (and I don’t like it at all) I MIGHT say “yes” to keep them from running into the ladies room crying. If someone spends hours cooking a special meal just for me and it doesn’t come out quite perfect I MIGHT lie and say it’s “great!” because I want to encourage them to keep cooking for me.
However, if the truth is important, and truth usually IS important I will tell the truth. For example “did you do such and such” I will tell the truth. If it is a family member and we are home and haven’t left the house yet I WILL tell them if an outfit is not flattering. If we have alreadyleft the house, though, I’ll keep quiet. Timing is important, and so is tact.
scent light bulbs throughout the house with CFL bulbs. The CFL bulbs use less electricity, so that makes them environmentally friendly, and it will save money on the electric bill. It took a while for me to find 3-Way CFL bulbs, finally found them at the local ACE Hardware store.